Consider taking on the role of a counselor or mentor. Let wisdom guide you to a ministry that makes sense in terms of your life and your world. Spirituality: A deeper sense of Spirit should move us to greater service. Give strong emotions time to subside before taking action you may regret later. Walk in the shoes of your partner or friend. Relationships: Without adopting a “poker face,” some situations call for a little restraint. Refuse to be drawn into rumor-mongering and petty disagreements. Work: When everyone is running in circles and screaming, someone has to step forward, exercise restraint, and draw attention back to the work that remains. You have more wisdom than you know draw on newfound maturity to come to the aid of a cause greater than yourself. Find a way to give back some of what you’ve been given. Personal Growth: The time has come to assume a leadership role, using your experiences to guide others. How might shutting out the source of emotional noise and doubt help you make contact with what you really feel?.What might happen if you elevated yourself above your conflicting emotions and saw things more clearly?.To what extent am I capable of keeping a 'stiff upper lip?'.

How can I make sure I’m being as objective and fair as possible?.What wise person could be consulted for good advice?.Using emotional or spiritual leverage to exercise unhealthy control over others. Making decisions without regard for their emotional impact on others.

Making unfair decisions based on a hidden agenda. Shadow: Allowing yourself to become rigid and unemotional. Honoring the spirit, not just the letter, of the law. Sharing experience as a way of comforting others. Being brave and clear in the face of adverse circumstances.

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